What Can Older People Learn From Your Generation?

What Can Older People Learn From Your Generation?

Judging this solely from an Indian/Keralite perspective. I think the older generation can learn tolerance from my generation. For other cultures, people, races, languages, art, movies and music. There is this feeling of “western music (namely all genres of pop, rock, metal etc) is only for foreigners and that it will never compare to the “glory” or “grandeur” of Indian music – bollocks! It all depends on your tastes and what kind of music most “speaks” to you as you grow up and not the region or language or instruments (but we all know that rock n roll is the very best!). And as for devotional music – kissing the ass of imaginary creatures who are “so great and we are all shit” is not my idea of good music.

They can also learn to accept new food & dishes that were unknown to them till now. Just because it’s not Indian doesn’t mean that it’s automatically bad for you. No, you will not start raping women after lustfully chowing down some chicken chow mein. That is just plain ole bullcrap! Expand your palate and try out new food. You have a short existence on this earth and there are way too many delicious food that you will never get to try before you die.

Also stop treating your daughters like there are mere “delivery vessels’ for your grandchildren. You do not have to marry them of by the time they turn 18 and worry why this daughter of yours, who you forbade from talking to strangers all the years she was with you, has now failed to get pregnant a mere month after getting married to a stranger of your choice!!! Grow the fuck up! And if your son can choose a girl of his own to marry so can your daughter.

Prompt from The Learning Network Blog at New York Times.

Circle Of Five

A writer once said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” If this is true, which five people would you like to spend your time with?

I tried but I just can’t limit it to 5 people. I mean there are so many people who I admire, respect and who I adore and who inspire me. How can I limit it to just 5 of them? It’s next to impossible.

If it were just the people who I have met then still I have trouble but it’s a lot more easier than the previous scenario. I can probably put it down to 5 women who have instilled my desires and who I have loved in different ways. It’s not just all sexual you know. But one is a relative, two are my former teachers and 2 are ex-colleagues and friends of mine.  These are the women who I want to spend more of my time with as I rarely do get to see them and interact with them anymore.

And my life would be the richer for it!

Prompt from the Daily Post at WordPress.com.